Archive for May 18th, 2009
Pursuing the Right Relationships

With so many people claiming to have the answer to relationship bliss, it’s difficult to know what advice to take. With articles offering conflicting advice and magazines spouting unrealistic or impractical suggestions for making a relationship work, it can be more than a little frustrating for all the singles out there. But people should always keep in mind that taking relationship tips is only going to work if the relationship itself is right.
If two people are simply incompatible, no amount of advice is going to change that. For that reason, relationships work best when the two parties acknowledge what they deem important. If you and your partner have similar goals both in the relationship and life in general, then those small pointers about how to create a romantic dinner for two might actually come in handy. Otherwise, it’s wasting good advice on a bad relationship.
Approaching women doesn’t have to be difficult. You might think that because there are so many different situations where you could approach a woman but these situations share a number of common elements. It’s possible to address all these common elements with a few basic techniques that will give you the relationship help you need.
First you must recognize that anytime and anywhere is the right time and the right place to meet a woman. Don’t wait for the perfect scenario, it may never happen. Be ready to seize the opportunity. It may only come around once. The door to your perfect relationship may never open until you knock.
Remember, your goal is simple. You must initiate a conversation, build a trustful connection, and get her vitals! That’s it. Don’t try to do too much at one time. Keep it simple.
Always have an icebreaker ready and be observant and careful to find something you can give her an honest compliment about. Always follow a compliment with a question to get her talking about her favorite subject (Herself).
Once you break the ice with a woman, you need to get her phone number to ensure future communication. This is a stress point for many guys but it doesn’t have to be. When it comes right down to asking for her number, always be confident and direct. Use simple, straightforward language, make eye contact, smile, and tell her you want to see her again. Use a business card if possible to exchange information. Tip: Get a cell phone number and not a business number if possible. It’s just that simple.
Practice as often as possible and remember, you don’t have to follow through with it. Just get the experience so when the women of your dreams appears you’ll be ready.